Cleaning House

I don’t know how it happens but it does.  One minute the house seems to be in relatively good shape and the next, I become aware that every room, closet, cabinet and corner has stuff in disarray.  Then it starts eating at me.  I think part of the problem is that we have too much stuff.  But once we get it, I have a hard time letting go of it because it’s either in perfectly good working condition or WE MIGHT NEED IT!  I know it’s silly but it’s true.

So little by little, area by area, I’ve been working on straightening up.  I don’t think anyone has noticed, but that’s ok.  The order is good for my well being.  So far, I’ve tackled Miss K’s bathroom, the linen closet, the downstairs coat closet, three baskets of stuff in our room and my car.  Still a long list of things to get to though…our closets, Miss K’s closet, our bathroom cabinet, the refrigerator, the spice cabinet, the pantry, and the garage.  Yowza.  That’s a lot of stuff.  I think for most of those spaces, there’s not a ton I need to toss (with the exception of the garage), just need to straighten up.  The cabinet under our sink gets crazy sometimes but it shouldn’t take too long to tackle.  I’ve been pleasantly surprised at how much room you can make by just straightening up.  I didn’t throw out a whole lot from our linen closet but just arranging things better actually freed up almost an entire shelf that I didn’t think was available.  Side note on the linen closet.  While folding towels, I realized that we have over 20 towels, including Miss K’s.  REALLY?????  For what reason do we need over 20 towels when there are only three of us living here?  Well, things spiral.  We got two sets from our wedding registry.  Then we wanted plain old white bath sheets so we bought two more.  Then we got another set from my MIL.  Then we got another set from a friend.  Then MIL thought we needed another white one.  Then I had bought one set for our downstairs bathroom.  Then hubby got one from work.  Then…we’re towel hoarders.  Same thing with bed sheets.  My husband saw this great deal on sheets that were great quality.  I really like them.  But we only need two sets of bed sheets at a time because we only have two beds and a crib in our house.  Yet we have at least seven sets of sheets.  So that stuff gets messy when you have limited space.

My goal for today is to tackle the refrigerator.  We just cleared it out for garbage day so it’s a good time to clean it.  I had frozen some broth in some ice cube trays that spilled and this made a mess in the freezer so I need to get on that.  By the way, I’m really proud of myself – usually I use a few tablespoons or a cup of broth out of a 2 cup can and end up throwing the rest away.  Well last week I froze the remaining broth into cubes and I used it in our meals this week.  Yay for less waste and saving money.

All this straightening up has led me to the conclusion that I need to make a schedule so that nothing gets out of control.  If I just pick one thing to do everyday, and do follow the schedule consistently, I’ll bet I could keep our stuff in order and then I wouldn’t waste so much time looking for stuff or waste so much money buying more of stuff we already have that I didn’t realize due to my disorganization.  So I’m going to work on making a chart of stuff that needs to happen and I’m going to try to stick with it.  Stay tuned.  I’ll share it.  Oh and I think I need to have something for beauty rituals too.  I’m out of control.  I could use a regularly scheduled eyebrow trim, mask, etc.

When we first got married, my husband found a resource – flylady.net that had a great idea.  It’s meant to be help for those women suffering from CHAOS – Can’t Have Anyone Over Syndrome.  For those of us who find ourselves in unwanted clutter, it creates a plan to slowly but surely work through and maintain the mess.  It’s nice because day one, the goal is merely to shine your sink – clear out all the plates, clean up all the other stuff around the sink so that tomorrow you can welcome the day with a fresh start.  So you do that everyday but you add a little each day.  It’s a great way to make progress without getting overwhelmed.

I want to inventory the kitchen too – I know I have stuff I just need to use up so it doesn’t go bad.  I’m going to see if I can make next week a clean up week for the kitchen.  What’s eating at you?  Do you have an area that could use some attention?

Update:    I took 20 minutes and cleaned up our bathroom cabinets.  Found some things to throw out but it’s still kinda cluttered in there.  At least now I can find stuff quickly.

The Dirty Dozen

I never know what’s worth buying organic and what’s not.  They have organic everything.  But sometimes it costs twice as much and for something like a banana, does it matter?  I never know.  So I’ve been trying to use the Environmental Working Group’s Dirty Dozen list as my guide, especially for food that we make for our bub. Confession: I’ve bought at least four of these in the last two weeks that were conventionally grown.  It’s just not that easy to find organic potatoes, for example.  Basically the list includes the twelve fruits/vegetables that were found to have the most pesticide residues.  Now use a little common sense here – of course it’s better to eat conventionally grown fruit and vegetables than none at all but if you have access to organic for at least these twelve, it’s a good choice.  It’s particularly important for children and pregnant women.

The Dirty Dozen:

  1. Apples
  2. Celery
  3. Strawberries
  4. Peaches
  5. Spinach
  6. Imported Nectarines
  7. Imported Grapes
  8. Sweet Bell Peppers
  9. Potatoes
  10. Domestic Blueberries
  11. Lettuce
  12. Kale/Collard Greens

They also provide a “Clean Fifteen” list of produce that were found to have the least pesticide residue.  These fruits and veggies are safer to eat non-organic.

The Clean Fifteen:

  1. Onions
  2. Sweet Corn
  3. Pineapples
  4. Avocados
  5. Asparagus
  6. Sweet Peas
  7. Mangoes
  8. Eggplant
  9. Domestic Cantaloupe
  10. Kiwi
  11. Cabbage
  12. Watermelon
  13. Sweet Potatoes
  14. Grapefruit
  15. Mushrooms

Reviewing the list was helpful to me. I am not going to freak out if I can’t find an organic item on the dirty dozen list but if the option is there, I’m now more likely to take it. Now there are organizations that encourage you to take this list with a grain of salt.  For example, the Alliance for Food and Farming provides a pesticide calculator that helps show the number of servings someone would need to eat in order to experience the negative effects of pesticides.  You would need to eat a LOT of produce to get significant levels of pesticide exposure but really, if you have a healthier option, why not take it?  Produce is one of the few things you can buy at the market that is not processed.  The pesticides sitting on them are additives that YOU don’t need (I understand that the farmers do in order to provide the crops, but YOUR body doesn’t need those pesticides).  Luckily between the farmer’s market, Sprouts, and Trader Joe’s, I can find several of these in organic options.  The tough part is that I find that our list of markets continues to grow.  This week we went to four markets to get groceries.  Not particularly time efficient but then I’ve been thinking that if I do a good job with meal planning, maybe I SHOULD be going to the market several times a week to get the freshest produce.  Much of the world does this.  Hell, in India, the market comes to your house everyday – a guy with a cart walks buy and you can get your produce for that day.  And in France, people stop by the market on their way home from work for bread, dairy and fresh vegetables.  It’s really only here in the states where we have these monsterous refrigerators and freezers stockpiled full of packaged foods.  But I digress.  Hope this list is helpful to you and happy produce shopping!

I (blank) excercise

I’ve been working on #13 on the LIST – Exercise.  The goal is four workouts a week, each lasting more than 30 minutes a piece.  I’ve been doing pretty good with it the last few weeks and there are two reasons for that – first, I really want to lose some weight.  We’re going on vacation in April and I’m a bridesmaid in a wedding in May and it would nice to not be tubby.  Secondly, I’m signed up for a half marathon in May and I hadn’t really run in two years when I signed up for it.  I want to not die!  I haven’t run a half marathon since 2008 or 2009…not good.  So I’ve been working on it.  I’m also logging it so I can see my progress.  I’ve only lost 3.5 pounds so far but hey, that’s better than nothing, right?  By the way, I picked this image because my mom used to do the Jane Fonda workout when we were kids.  I should rephrase…me, my brother, and my two cousins used to do the Jane Fonda workout with my mom when we were kids.  Seriously.  Just the memory of this makes me giddy with glee.  How did she not crack up at us?  Why on earth did we work out with her?  Awesome.  Just awesome.

I’ve been doing a few different things – my goal is to run three times a week – one speedwork session, one normal run, and one long, easy run.  But I’ve only run twice a week so far.  Maybe this week will be the week!  I’m also doing Zumba – it’s fun and I work up a sweat.  I also feel like an idiot when I can’t pick up the steps.  But I do my best.  Where I can, I fit in yoga.  Wow, is my body is tight.  So many of my poses look crazy.  But I’m gonna keep trying.  Finally, I try to do various p90x workouts…keyword is try.  I can do the cardio workout, not 100% intensity like they do in the video, but I’m able to complete it!  I tried the ab ripper x video yesterday.  Holy shmoly, it was over the top hard and I DEFINITELY didn’t make my way through the whole thing.  But again, I did what I could and I think I’ll get further next time.  I started the insane pliometrics workout too but it was too intense; I didn’t get but maybe five minutes past the warm up.  Granted, I tried after doing a speedwork session the night before and didn’t want to injure myself but it was tough.  I’ll try again later.  At the gym I’ve been doing biceps, shoulders, back, chest, abs, and triceps too.

All the different kinds of workouts keep things interesting for me and prevents me from getting bored.  And really, right now I’m feelin’ it.  I’m not seeing crazy or obvious results but I’m enjoying the workout itself.  And I’m not dragging myself to go do my workouts these days either.  I don’t know how long it’s going to last but I’ll take it for now.

It’s not easy, though.  When I do my home workouts, I sometimes don’t start til 9pm, and that’s AFTER a day of running around after baby, putting up posts on our other blog, putting baby down for the night, cleaning up after dinner, etc. So it’s not always so easy.  AND I’ve taken baby out in the jogging stroller to get some of my runs done.  I like it because it’s awesome to be with her while doing something for myself but it’s not easy pushing an extra 40 pounds around.  I will say, though, stretching while singing and dancing for baby is a lot more fun after a run is a lot more fun than doing it alone.  She likes being in her stroller, too.  Last week I did a four mile run and she took a nice little nap while I jogged and woke up so happy.  Before she fell asleep, she was looking around and checking things out.  She really mellows out in her strollers.  It’s nice.

The point is that it’s tough but it’s worth it.  Where there’s a will, there’s a way.  It took me a full year after Miss K was born to get back on the workout wagon.  I think if I hadn’t lost my baby weight, I would have been motivated to work out sooner but I was lucky – I didn’t put on too much and my modified diet due to Miss K’s allergies helped me take off the weight.  It took me a while, but I’m doing it now and it feels great.  I hate it but I love it.  Once I get off my butt, get started, and shake off the rust, I feel great and happy.  I seriously start feeling like this guy:

Then I start have delusions of grandeur and begin having images of being able to do crazy things and suddenly I become this:

Well I become this in my mind, of course.  I seriously have visions of one armed push ups and pull up after pull up.  But then reality sets in and I realize I’m no G.I. Jane and I never will be.  I have half a dozen spare tires around my midsection that I need to burn off.  But it’s fun in the meanwhile.  Sweating is good.  I don’t know how long this is going to last, but I’m going ride this wave as long as I can!

How to Make Wool Dryer Balls

I have another item to add to the “moving in a natural direction by swapping out products” list.  I’m letting go of the habit of using dryer sheets in our laundry.  I’ve always used dryer sheets, probably because I grew up in New Mexico where the air is really dry, especially in the winter.  Without dryer sheets, our laundry would hurt because of all the static in the clothes.  They also smell nice and make our clothes feel soft.  But as I’m getting older, I’m realizing this is just another chemical-laden product that I probably don’t need.  Our cloth diapers can’t use them and I never used them on baby’s clothes so I found myself wondering if we even really need them.  I started looking into them and like usual, research helped me seal the deal.

Dryer sheets are typically a thin sheet of polyester intended to be used once and then thrown out (strike one).  Usually the polyester has some sort of surfactant which is made up of a fatty substance of some sort that heats up in the dryer and adheres to your clothes, leaving a layer of fat that feels soft to the touch (ew.  strike two).  The hard part is that different manufacturers use different chemicals and are not required by law to print what they’re using unless they’re hazardous or are active disinfectants.  Well, apparently some of those chemicals can be irritating to inhale or ingest (strike three).  While most people I know don’t eat or snort dryer sheets, they do breathe the air in the laundry room.  There are studies that show that scented laundry products can release carcinogens into the air.  And in general, if I don’t need it, I should do away with it, right?

Enter the wool dryer ball!  Wool dryer balls are exactly what you’d think they are:  balls made of wool.  According to several sites I’ve read, wool dryer balls are supposedly good for the following reasons:

  1. They’re natural.  I made our wool dryer balls with 100% wool.  Ours were dyed so there’s that, but otherwise, no crazy lipids added.
  2. They speed up drying time.  I believe this is because they bounce around in the dryer, helping the clothes move around, which helps them dry faster.  I’ve heard of people using tennis balls or the PVC balls that you can buy but I believe both of those will put off chemicals from the plastic.  Also, the wool supposedly helps pull the moisture from the clothes.  So far, I’ve used them twice on diaper laundry loads. I think they’re cutting down some time.  Once I have all five of mine in the dryer, I’m hoping to cut back the dry time even further.
  3. They produce less waste.  One dryer ball should last between 5-10 years, where as a dryer sheet is only used once.  No box, either.
  4. They’re cost effective.  Goes hand in hand with #3.  Wool yarn isn’t cheap but like cloth diapers, there is an upfront cost that benefits you in the long run.  You have to pay more for the wool at the beginning but then you don’t have to keep paying for them.
  5. They reduce static in clothes.  I’m not sure how they do this but apparently they do, but probably not as well as a dryer sheet.

So I decided to give them a try.  Depending on the size of the dryer ball (and the size of your load of laundry), you need several.  I bought two to begin with because they’re not cheap.  The ones I bought were from ecomom.com and cost $7 each.  At least I had free shipping :) .  They look like this:

Hers are nice and are about the size of a tennis ball, maybe a little bigger.  I got one in blue and one in gray, although color really doesn’t matter.  I have no idea where the gray one has wandered off to.  It’s nowhere to be found.  According to what I’ve read, you really need 4-8 to see a difference in drying time.  I really want to reduce the amount of drying time for the cloth diapers we wash.  We do 2-3 diaper loads per week and each load is taking about 80 minutes to dry.  That’s not so green when you think of the energy used and emissions released!  Add in the 3-4 loads of our clothes plus rags and dishtowels and you’r looking at sometimes 30 loads of laundry a month!  So off to Michael’s I went to buy wool yarn.  It turns out that wool yarn isn’t cheap, and when you factor in shipping costs when you buy dryer balls online, it’s no surprise that the dryer balls aren’t cheap.

What’s important is that you buy 100% wool.  No wool blends.  Some people use tennis balls as the core but I didn’t want to risk plastic leaching out in the dryer so I decided to stick with 100% wool.  Some people upcycle old wool sweaters with great success.  I don’t have any though so I bought wool yarn.  Maybe I’ll make a trip to goodwill and see what I can find.  I also wonder if you could do the inner core with another, cheaper material and get the same results.  I’m not sure so if you’ve done that, please share your experience in the comments section below.  Anyway, let’s get to the super simple tutorial.

First start a ball by wrapping some yarn around two fingers in one direction and then slipping the yarn off your fingers and going in the other direction.  It should look something like this:

Side note – you can also tie in a sprig of dried lavender inside the ball to scent it but it will eventually wear off.  I didn’t have any so I kept it simple.  I’ve also read that you can add a few drops of essential oils to the balls and that works as a temporary scent too.  I didn’t do either of those things though.  Back to the tutorial…

Start winding in different directions to make a ball, continuing until the ball is about the size of a racketball.  The cut the string and tuck it securely into the ball.  Some people use a crochet needle for this but I just did it with my fingers.  Once it’s about the size of a racketball, you need to felt it.  Felting will help condense the ball and will make is soft and fuzzier, like felt, and prevents the ball from unraveling.  All you have to do is put the wool ball into a leg of pantyhose or a knee high stocking or a sock, tie it with some string (or just tie a knot with the stocking itself if that’s what you’re using), and wash it on hot and dry it a few times.  If you’re making more than one ball, you can use the same sock/stocking, just make sure you tie a knot in between each ball to keep them in their own snug little compartment.  The first time I did this, I used a sock.  It didn’t seem to work *that* great, I think because the sock was rather thick.

So I tried again on a subsequent set with an old, run-laden knee hi.  Admittedly, they look a little creepy in that pantyhose.  And I will also admit that I got a little carried away with tying them; it took a little longer to untie the string I used than I would have liked.  I just really didn’t want the string to come undone because then the ball would likely unravel! Once the ball is felted, use the rest of your yarn to continue making the ball and repeat the felting process.  I washed this one three times by just throwing it into the regular wash (again on hot). That’s it!  Here are a few balls I’ve made.  I think they’re cute.  Like a happy little band of friends  The blue one has actually been used in a normal wash, which is why it’s fuzzier.  If you find that yours are super linty, I believe you can use a sweater shaver or a lint brush to get some of that lint off.Voila!  Or as my not so bright friends say, Wahla!  You have a wool dryer ball.  Throw it into your dryer the next time you run a load but be prepared – you will be able to hear them bouncing around.  Depending on your dryer, the size of your load of laundry, and the balls, it could get loud.  Ours aren’t so loud that they wake up baby, but it’s something to be aware of.  AND the other annoying part is that they tend to make a break for it when you empty the dryer so make sure you take ‘em back to the laundry room!  If they stick around in your bedroom, at least you know they’re safe for your kids and pets to play with.  I actually kinda liked making these…winding the balls was a little therapeutic.  So if you would like to give some of these a try but don’t feel like making them yourself, I can help you.  Just leave me a comment below and we can talk about making that happen.  They’re a great alternative to dryer sheets!

Monday Meal Plan – Week of March 4, 2012

We’ve had a good run of eating at home, the last couple weeks, I’m proud to say.  Last week we ate at home every weeknight (only went out on the weekends) and the week before, I cooked six days in a row!  Yay for us!  The plan is to keep up the trend by keeping things simple in the kitchen but trying some new things.

Sunday:  Fideua is a Spanish dish that was vegan and actually pretty good, if I do say so myself.  It’s made with soy chorizo, onions, angel hair pasta, tomato sauce and mushrooms.  I halved the recipe that served eight but we ate it all up.  Maybe it’s not supposed to be a main dish but we’ll be treating it that way.  Yum.  Adding it to the ol’ rotation.  Here’s what it looks like.  Que bonito, no?

 

Monday:  Quinoa Khichadi.  Made this a few weeks ago and I’m going to give it another try to see if I can fix some of the imperfections.  I’d like to try to make one indian dish for dinner each week.  I feel like I need to learn how to cook that kind of food in case our folks need me to.  I technically know how but I have no confidence and haven’t regularly been around indian food in 10 years.  So it’s time.

Tuesday:  Hubby will likely have a work event to attend so baby and I will figure something out on our own.  If we don’t have leftovers, I’ll do something quick and easy.  Timing will work out well because I’m actually going to be making an extra meal for one of the Moms in my MOMS club who just had a baby a few weeks ago.  It’s an awesome way that moms help one another out, because it’s not easy dealing with food stuff when you just had a baby.  Although I saw this mom last week and she had her stuff together.  She looked great!

Wednesday:  Pizza and Salad (and maybe some asparagus I need to use up)

Thursday:    Soup and Sandwiches.  I know it’s crazy but my husband keeps telling me how much he likes it so it’s a quick go-to that is easy on the waist, the wallet, and the effort scale!

Friday:  Black beans and Rice – my husband and I were talking about food he likes and he’s a simple guy.  Just wants some basic foods and this is one that he requested.  I am going to buy some dried black beans and soak them.  Also have some soy chorizo left over from the Fideua that I’d like to use up.  Win-win!

Saturday:    Maybe we’ll go out and I’ll take a break from cooking

What’s on the menu for your family this week?

 

Family Sandwich

Oh little blog, how I’ve neglected you.  Not even a monday meal plan post this week.  I promise to make it up to you.  I love you and have been missing you.  I’m sorry for not writing.  I promise I’ll get back on track soon.  I’ll start today but I’ll warn you, the subject matter might get tough at times.

Today I took my daughter to visit my mom and my grandma.  My grandma lives with my mom and her health is…not good.  Ok let me stop sugar coating things as I tend to do.  She’s dying.  There.  I said it.  My grandma is in her eighties and her kidneys are failing have failed.  She has less than 5% functionality left at this point.  So this means that all the toxins in her body would pool and she would die if it weren’t for the three hour dialysis sessions she attends three days a week.  She also is pretty much blind.  And over the last few weeks, she’s been having severe back and hip pain.  Luckily my brother is a orthopedic surgeon and his wife is a Radiologist and they spotted a fracture that her primary care physician was unable to see.  Unfortunately there’s not much we can do to ease the pain.  It’s a tough situation for everyone.  It’s hard for my mom to see her suffer and it’s obviously tough on an old gal like my grandma to bear.  And what’s worse is that my grandmother’s mind is still sharp as a tack.  She recognizes our voices and remembers things that I forget sometimes.  She knows her body is failing her and is actually kind of pissed about it, I think.  Rough situation.

So I talk to my mom pretty often.  And I hear the strain in her voice as a result of the pressure she’s been under.  She can’t go off and enjoy anything; she hasn’t been on vacation for a long long time.  She is unable to even spend an afternoon shopping without worrying about her mom.  And when my grandma’s having a particularly rough day, I don’t hear from my mom at all.  That’s how I know it’s bad.  The part that kills me about it is that, like her mother, she has a hard time putting her burden on anyone else, especially me.  By the way, that trait may have been passed on to me too.  But I have this magic bullet that seems to help ease the pain for everyone, even if it’s for a little while.  Her name is Karina and she’s a little ray of sunshine.  So I go over there about once a week and it’s like there’s ]a cloud that blows away when Miss K. walks through the door.  My mom’s face lifts and my grandma finds the strength to sit up and move and on good days, walk out to see her.  The energy that she generates is simply amazing.  And baby LOVES going over there.  She laughs the whole time.  Today she walked to my grandma (who we call Ba)’s room and said “Ba!  Ba!  Ba!” and it made everyone happy.  And Karina smiled and waved to her.  I don’t know that my grandma could see it but I have to believe she could feel it.  Because the look of discomfort quickly changed to a smile.

A few weeks ago, before her back pain was so severe, all four of us were sitting at the table having lunch together.  The two caretakers (my mom and I) were sitting on the outside and my grandma and my baby sitting in between.  And as my mom fussed and made sure grandma was eating enough, I fussed and made sure Miss K. ate enough.  Mom asked Ba if she needed more water, I asked Miss K if she needed more water.  And interspersed was love and each of us finding ways to make the other three laugh.  It occurred to me that here we were, four generations of crazy girls taking care of each other and at some point, each of our roles flip.  My grandma once took care of my mom.  One day I’ll take care of her.  I’m taking care of my baby.  One day she may care for me.  It’s this beautiful family sandwich that we all have.  Sometimes you’re the meat, sometimes you’re the bread.  No matter what, it’s better when it’s together than when the pieces are apart.

So I’ll keep taking Miss K over there.  She recharges their batteries.  She gets to know some of her family members and gets a change of pace.  I can hopefully take some burden off my mom, as she’s done for me over and over and over again.

Meal Plan Monday – Week of February 19, 2012

Last week was a bear.  There, I said it.  It started with a very romantic Valentine’s Day dinner that I made for our little family.  I followed this up with a dessert of nausea, vomiting, chills, sweat, achiness, and a headache.  I’m sure my husband found me tres attractive.  Actually the most romantic part of the evening was that he took care of everything (cleaning up and posting on the other blog) and took care of me too.  So nice.  Luckily he worked from home the next day and that let me rest and on Thursday, I was feeling much better.  Unfortunately on Thursday night, he was not.  It was his turn.  We weren’t sure if it was some sort of food poisoning or if it was the flu until he got it and had an achy body, chills, etc. also.  His seemed to be more severe, though, and it wiped him out most of Friday, into Saturday.  Unfortunately this messed up his plan of running a half marathon on Sunday.  Boo.  And did I mention Miss K popped another tooth?  We couldn’t tell if it was the tooth or if her milk allergy is back or if she was sick, but she was F-U-S-S-Y and sadly inconsolable.  I felt so bad for her.  She was throwing up milk a little here and there, she was crying and crying for no apparent reason and she wasn’t sleeping well.  Our biggest fear was that she had what we had.  But it looks like it was mostly her tooth and it seems she’s caught a cold.  Poor little dumpling.  All this sickness made it tougher to cook at home.  Let’s see, we had Rice, Dal, and Raita, Quinoa Burgers, Veggie Mac n’ Cheese, and ate out pretty much ever other night.  Eeks.  Working on making this week different.

Sunday:  Enchiladas with Veggie Shreds cheese.  Cheese was a little weird.  I think we’ll stick to the real deal.  We hardly ate any enchiladas, mostly because we had a monsterous late lunch in Pasadena before coming home on Sunday.  So now I have eight enchiladas to eat over course of this week’s lunches.

Monday:  Vegetarian Chili and Apples.  Baked Sweet Potato Fries, Avocado, and Cheese for Miss K.

Tuesday:  Spaghetti Squash, Broccoli, and Pasta Salad.  I’ve never actually made spaghetti squash so I’m kind of excited to try it.

Wednesday:  Gonna make that ten bean soup from a dry mix from last week.  Will serve with sandwiches.

Thursday:   Hubby is heading out to hang out with the guys to celebrate a friend’s birthday.

Friday: Spinach, garlic, onion, tomato and cheese omelets

Saturday:   Some friends are coming over and I have yet to decide what we’re having.  Better hop on that.

Quinoa, I Believe in Ya!

Oh quinoa, you have ascended to lofty nutritional heights in my mind.  Quinoa (pronounced keen-wa) is a grain (I’ve also read that it’s a seed so I dunno) that has been gaining popularity over the last ten years.  It has an incredible protein composition – it contains ALL nine essential amino acids.  It’s the only plant based food to provide that.  It will give you stamina and provide protein that you would otherwise only find in meats.  Additionally its glycemic load is low, which means it’s less likely to cause a sugar spike like some of the foods it’s often subbed for – rice, pasta, couscous.  We like it and I have had several conversations with people that start out something like this: “I bought some quinoa but I have no idea what to do with it.”  So I thought I’d share some recipes that I’ve made and enjoyed.  Oh ya, and I don’t usually take pictures of the food I make so the pictures I’ve included are ones that I pulled off the intarwebz.  Bon appetite!

Quinoa Bowls – this is a staple for sure at our house.  Think Chipotle burrito bowl but with quinoa.  I usually have the ingredients on hand and it cooks up quick so we like it.

Ingredients

  • 1 teaspoon vegetable oil
  • 1 onion, chopped
  • 3 cloves garlic, peeled and chopped
  • 3/4 cup uncooked quinoa
  • 1 1/2 cups vegetable broth
  • 1 teaspoon ground cumin
  • 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
  • 2 Tbsp green chiles
  • salt and pepper to taste
  • 1/4 cup salsa
  • 1 cup frozen corn kernels
  • 2 (15 ounce) cans black beans, rinsed and drained  (OR rehydrated dried beans!!!!)
  • 1/2 cup chopped fresh cilantro
  • Avocado (optional)
  • Shredded cheddar cheese (optional)
  1. Heat the oil in a medium saucepan over medium heat. Stir in the onion and garlic, and saute until lightly browned.
  2. Mix quinoa into the saucepan and cover with vegetable broth. Season with cumin, cayenne pepper, salt, and pepper. Add green chile.  Bring the mixture to a boil. Cover, reduce heat, and simmer 20 minutes,
  3. Stir frozen corn and salsa into the saucepan, and continue to simmer about 5 minutes until heated through. Mix in the black beans and cilantro.
  4. Top with avocados and shredded cheddar cheese

Cheesy Broccoli Quinoa -  I made this recipe up so you might need to play with it a few times to get it exactly the way you want it.  I kinda wing it.

Ingredients:

  • 2 cups COOKED quinoa (usually is yielded from 1 cup uncooked quinoa)
  • 1 cup broccoli, chopped into small trees
  • 2 tsp olive oil
  • 1/2 medium onion, chopped
  • 2 Tablespoons butter
  • 2 tbsp flour
  • 3/4 cup milk
  • 1 cup shredded cheddar cheese
  • 1/2 tsp salt
  • 1/2 tsp pepper
  1. Heat olive oil in a small frying pan over medium heat and saute onion until soft.
  2. Add broccoli and saute until softened.  Remove from heat.
  3. Melt the butter in a saucepan. Whisk in the flour and cook, whisking for 5 minutes until fragrant and light brown in color.
  4. Whisk in the milk and bring to a boil. Whisk until smooth and thickened.
  5. Remove from heat and stir in the shredded cheddar cheese until melted. Add the salt and pepper to the cheese sauce.
  6. Combine cheese sauce with quinoa and veggies.  Top with additional cheese for extra cheesability.  :)

Quinoa Burgers -  Got this one from a blog called Eating Well Living Thin.  Made this on Valentine’s Day with the intention of forming the patties into hearts for my man and my bebe.  It did not work out that way so we had plain ol’ round patties.  OH. SO. GOOD.  Definitely a keeper.  This makes a hefty portion – 10 burgers at least.  Seriously, REALLY good.  Surprisingly so.  I modified the ingredients a bit:

Ingredients:

  • 2 rounded cups COOKED quinoa 
  • 3/4 cup shredded cheddar cheese (or other variety, if you prefer)
  • 1/2 cup low-fat cottage cheese
  • 1/2 medium carrot, finely grated
  • 1 cup shredded zucchini, squeezed
  • 3 eggs
  • 3 tablespoons all purpose flour
  • 2 green onions, including white parts
  • 1/2 teaspoon sugar
  • 1/4 teaspoon black pepper
  • 1/2 teaspoon ground cumin
  • 1/4 teaspoon salt
  • 1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
  • Olive oil for frying
  1. In a large bowl combine the cooked quinoa, cheddar cheese, cottage cheese, carrot, zucchini, eggs, flour, green onions, Sugar, pepper, cumin, salt, and garlic powder.
  2. Heat a frying pan and a couple teaspoons olive oil over medium-low heat.
  3. Mixture will be slightly sticky, so using a 1/4 cup measuring cup, drop mixture into pan and lightly flatten to 1/2 inch thick.
  4. Fry until golden-brown, about 4 minutes on each side.

Quinoa Khichadi:  My mother-in-law makes a DELICIOUS sabu dhana kichadi.  I thought I would try to make it a little healthier by using quinoa instead of the food coma inducing tapioca (Or at least I think that’s what sabu dhana is).  For those of you not familiar, kichadi is a mishmash dish that typically has a grain and a bean.  Her version uses peanuts and is awesome.  Mine’s not as awesome but it ain’t bad.  It can be as spicy as you want it.  This is another recipe that I didn’t do a great job measuring; I just made it.  If you know how to make indian food, don’t use these measurements, use your gut.  If you don’t, this should serve as a decent guideline.

Ingredients:

  • 2 cups COOKED quinoa
  • 2 small potatoes, cubed into small chunks
  • 2 TBSP olive oil
  • 1/2 green chili of some sort
  • 1/2 cup roasted, salted peanuts, ground into a fine powder (reserve 2 TBSP for yogurt chutney below)
  • 1/2 tsp red chili powder (the indian kind, not the kind you put in chili with beans and beef and tomoatoes)
  • 1/2 tsp ground coriander
  • 1/2 tsp salt

Yogurt chutney:

  • 1/2 cup plain yogurt
  • 1/8 tsp salt
  • 1/8 tsp chili powder (again, the indian kind)
  • 2 rounded TBSP ground peanuts
  • pinch of sugar
  1. Warm olive oil over medium heat in a large skillet.  Add potatoes and saute, stirring frequently until soft.  (After cooking for about five minutes, I actually put a lid on it and added some water to help the potatoes along)
  2. Add green chili and saute briefly, about 1 minute.
  3. Add quinoa, spices, and peanuts and continue to stir until heated through.  Remove from heat.
  4. Combine ingredients of yogurt chutney in a medium bowl.  Adjust salt, sugar, and chili powder to suit your taste.

Serve bowls of khichadi, stirring the desired amount of chutney in for each person.

Hope these come in handy for you!  I was at a loss after buying a four pound bag from costco so I started looking for recipes.  There’s all kinds of good stuff out there to make and if you’re a vegetarian especially, quinoa is a great addition to your diet to help you get those amino acids.

Beans, Beans – Good for your Heart!

Been thinking about beans.  Ya, I know.  Maybe I need to get a hobby or something.  But really, my husband’s been asking about using dried beans instead of canned beans and I’ve been seeing bits and pieces about dried beans vs. canned and it’s making think I’d like to move in that direction.  Since we’re leaning more vegetarian these days anyway, maybe more beans in our diets wouldn’t be a bad thing.  We don’t use a ton, but we do use a lot of pinto beans in the refried kind we buy, we also use black beans for quinoa bowls and chili, and we use kidney beans in the chili we make too.  And lately I’ve been giving my baby lentil soup.  Here are a few good reasons why I think I’m going to start soaking beans:

  1. BPA levels in canned foods are scary.  I gotta tell you…when I read this, my heart sank because I’ve been giving Miss K lentil soup (from a can) that she loves. I bought it because the label had ingredients that were simple.  No scary chemicals.  The list was short.  Didn’t think about BPA at all.  I don’t know if the brand we buy has BPA but I know that dried beans don’t.
  2. We would produce Less waste.  A biodegradable plastic bag for a whole lotta beans vs. a can for a few beans…hmmm.  Dried beans wins again.  Although the cans are recyclable, so at least there’s that.
  3. Dried beans are less processed.  I don’t know what that slimy liquid is in the kidney beans we have but my guess is that it’s not a natural byproduct of the bean.
  4. It’s more economical.  I often throw away a quarter can or half a can of beans because we don’t finish them.  Now I can measure out how much I need.  Dried beans are way cheaper than canned.  I’ve read that dried beans about double in weight when you refresh them.  I can of refried pinto beans is usually around $1 and weighs 15 oz.  You can get dried pinto beans for about half that.  I’m sure if you bought in bulk it’d be even less.
  5. Some beans have added sodium.  Using the dried kind allows me to control the salt I put into them.

Now, like so many other things that I’m choosing to do because it’s better for our health or the environment, this will be a little more work.  I’ve read that it’s better to soak beans overnight.  So that means I have to plan and that I’ll have less on-the-fly options if I do away with them completely.  I think I need to be reasonable, so I think I’ll still have a can or two that I can use in a pinch but for planned meals, I’ll use dried equivalents.  My mom does it every week.  She uses all kinds of dried beans, a couple days a week.  I just need to plan better like she does.  It might take a while to update on this one…too bad I bought an 8 pack of refried beans and a 4 pack of lentil soup from costco that I need to get through first.  I did buy some dried bean soup mix that I’m gonna hop on within the next week or so.  That will be my first experience!

Now I don’t know if they’ll taste different (better or worse, don’t know!) but I’d like to try.

Miss K and I made it through a journey together

It’s happening.  I think my baby no longer needs me to breastfeed her.  Hooray/sniff sniff/woohoo/boo hoo/yippee/fall-into-a-puddle-and-weep-because-this-might-mean-she-doesn’t-need-me-AT-ALL-anymore.  Get a hold of yourself, woman!

Seriously, though, I’m really having mixed feelings about this.  On the one hand, hallelujah!  I can wear a normal bra again!  Finally!  On the other, it’s the one thing I could give her that no one else can.

I always assumed I would breastfeed my daughter, mostly because I wanted to give her  the benefits of breastmilk and as long as I could, I should.  Though, even after I was pregnant, I didn’t know how long babies typically were breastfed nor did I ever understand how truly hard it is to breastfeed.  No one told me (cries the victim!).  I was lucky, though.  Karina was relatively good at latching on and eating out the gate.  And I was blessed with a good supply of milk.  In the early days, the biggest challenge was that it hurt.  And I was tired.  And she needed to eat like 8 times a day and each time took 30-45 minutes and every time I turned around, it was time to eat AGAIN.  I was dripping (literally) with milk all the time.  It was like nothing I had ever experienced.  But we stumbled our way through it, my husband sitting on the floor, keeping us company, while I sat in our rocking chair, holding and feeding our baby.  He would tickle her legs and put a wet washcloth to keep her awake so she could eat.  Babies are sleepy little buggers.  It was hard.  And I soaked my clothes and felt like I was going to pop because I was so full of milk.  A funny cow.  But it was beautiful and I hope I never forget those little moments that were shared just between us.  I gave her what I had when she was inside of me and here was one last physical way that I could share what I had on the inside with her.  So maybe you can kinda understand why I’m crying now.  :)

Then by month 3, things got easier and they got harder.  I didn’t know it but my milk was inflaming her gut.  It seemed that Miss K. had some sort of an allergy.  It all started when I saw blood in her stool.  We went to the doctor and they said the most common cause was allergies.  So the doctor had me cut dairy out of my diet and we went back a week later and had her stool tested.  There was still blood in it.  The doctor said maybe it was something else.  So she had me cut out dairy, shellfish, peanuts, wheat, soy, and eggs.  We went back a week later and tested her stool again.  Still positive with blood in it.  So now we had at least three weeks of bloody diapers (so so scary), poor pumpkin was throwing up often, was crying and crying while the milk ran through her system and I had no idea what to eat.  The doctor said we should try giving her formula for a week just to rule out that it was, in fact, an allergy.  If, after a week of being on formula, she still had blood in her stool, then we’d need to see a GI specialist.  So she sent me home with some formula samples and I cried (and cried and cried).  I just wasn’t ready to stop feeding her.  But for that week, I did.  Again, we got lucky.  Miss K is incredibly flexible and drank the formula from a bottle without much fuss.  I LOATHED that formula.  It smelled bad, it made her poo gross, it gave her constipation.  I was pumping six times a day to make sure that my supply didn’t drop.  It sucked.  Not only do you have to pump, but you don’t know if that milk will ever be able to be used, you have to wash bottles and pump parts, AND we were buying some of the most expensive formula out there.  Not gonna lie.  That was a really rough week.

But that formula kept Miss K.’s stomach calm.  There was a noticeable change in her demeanor.  At the time I thought the formula “sucked the spirit out of her.”  And yes, I believe I actually used that phrase but in actuality, it allowed her calm, easy going nature to come out.  The poor thing was screaming in pain and we didn’t know that it was my milk that was doing it to her.  But I was resolved to feed her breastmilk.  I wanted her to have that benefit.  So I went back and cut out the six most common allergens again: wheat, soy, eggs, peanuts, dairy and shellfish.  For a few months, I was constantly confused on what to eat.  Pretty much anything processed had one of those ingredients in it.  I thought that the whole gluten-free trend would help me here but usually they use soy based products to substitute the wheat.  Couldn’t eat asian food – pretty much everything had soy sauce.  Couldn’t eat fast food – not many choices.  Couldn’t eat pizza or ice cream or cookies or any of my favorite things.  So I ate a lot of avocados and tortillas and rice pastas and rice.  Actually I lost a lot of weight then.  Did that for a few months but also found that the stinkin’ formula was keeping her gut calm.  So we decided to give her half breast milk and half formula and did this til we transitioned out the formula and transitioned in cow’s milk a month ago.  The last few months of breast feeding were easy.  She knew what to do and was efficient.  My milk supply had dropped waaaay off so I was more comfortable; no engorgement, no leaks, no nuthin’.  Our morning feedings were a sleepy beautiful little salute to the day.  Precious moments that I hope I’ll never forget.

Well, we made it.  I’ve been cutting back the feedings one by one.  She’s been drinking out of a sippy cup, no more bottle.  Yesterday I didn’t breast feed her at all.  She didn’t seem to notice.  My baby’s getting bigger.  I’m so proud of her.  And well, ya…I’m proud of me too for making it to 13 months.  I’m going to miss those close moments but I know there will be other ways for me to bond with her. I bonded with her when I was feeding her the bottle, too.  I guess it’s time for a new page in our story.