Tips for Traveling with Baby – At the Airport

It’s time for the second installment of Tips for Traveling with Baby.  Now your bags are all packed.  It’s time to get to the airport.  Here are a few tips on making it through a sometimes stressful trip to the ticket gate:

  1. Plan on getting to the airport at least 1.5 hours before your flight departs.  If you have a rental car to return, are flying on a heavy traffic day, or are flying internationally, you’ll need even more time.  Traveling with a child takes more time than when you’re alone so why stress yourself out?
  2. Take a passport or your baby’s birth certificate.  We had flown five round trips without anyone ever asking for our baby’s ID so on the sixth round trip, we thought we didn’t need it.  Of course they asked for it.  Luckily we live 15 minutes from the airport and were flying from home so my husband was able to go get it.  Don’t get caught unprepared!
  3. If you are bringing your carseat with you, know whether you’re checking it in on taking it on the flight with you.  If you’re planning on checking in the carseat, you’ll need something to put it in.  We bought a bag that’s something like this to protect it…we’ve seen others using bags provided by the airline.  Call ahead if you’re going to do this to confirm the airline provides those bags.  And give yourself some time to wrap up the carseat at the airport.  We’ve always checked our carseat in because we didn’t want to lug it around at the airport.  If your child will have his own seat, you might want to take it onboard with you.  We’ve never done that though.
  4. You’ll need to hold on to your boarding pass and your baby’s boarding pass.  Even if you’re traveling with your baby as a lap child, you’ll still need to make sure there’s a boarding pass for each of you.  And the person whose ticket the baby is attached to will need to be the one holding the baby while boarding the plane.
  5. Know what to expect at the x-ray security area and plan out who’s doing what.  If you’re traveling alone, then you’re doing everything.  :)   If you’re traveling with a companion, decide ahead of time who will be carrying the baby through the metal detector, who will be folding up the stroller, who will be taking the bottles out of the baby bag.  It just makes things less stressful when you’re actually having to do it.  If you checked your stroller at the counter and are using a carrier, things may be a little easier since you don’t have to fold up the stroller.  If you have your stroller, they’ll run it through the x-ray machine once you’ve folded it up.  If you have filled baby bottles and/or sippy cups, the security staff will take those liquids and test them.  In all our trips, we’ve come across two means to test them; either they’ll open the bottle and wave a test strip over the liquid or they’ll just lay closed bottle down sideways in a testing machine.  You’ll need to accompany the security staff to get the bottle tested.  And of course, you’ll still need to remove your shoes, empty your pockets, and take out any laptops.  Phew!  I find this to be the most stressful part of the airport experience, especially when there’s a long line of travelers ahead of you.
  6. If you didn’t check in your stroller, you’ll need to get a gate check tag from the gate counter before you board the plane.  The stroller definitely comes in handy at the airport and we gate check it, which means we can use it until right before we board the plane, where we fold it up and leave it for an attendant to load on to the plane.  When we de-plane, we pick it up right outside the gate of the plane.  I will say that our stroller is pretty banged up from all our travel (well that and it was once used in a baby shower obstacle course game).  I’ve been noticing each time we travel, it’s a little worse than it was the time before.  If your baby is strong enough to sit in an umbrella stroller, those are highly recommended for travel.
  7. Plan your feedings.  If you give yourself enough time, you’ll have the luxury of being able to feed your baby whenever she’s ready to be fed.  We’ve stopped in an out of the way area to breastfeed our baby before going through security.  It’s just less stressful that way.  Some airports, like San Jose International (SJC), have rooms where you can nurse, which is really nice.  Ideally timing works out to where you can feed the baby to coincide the ascent and descent of the plan.
  8. Change baby’s diaper before you get on the plane.  There’s still a chance that you’ll need to change a diaper on the plane, but if you do it beforehand, it’s a lot less stressful.  Pretty much all airports have changing tables in the ladies’ rooms.  We’ve had to change a dirty diaper on the plane before.  I just felt bad for those around us.

So now you know what to expect at the airport.  Good luck!

Miss K’s First Haircut

We finally did it.  We took Miss K. in for a long overdue haircut.  It’s funny.  As I read reviews looking for a hair salon (?), I kept reading about kids that were two, two and a half…mine’s not quite eleven months.  Was she too small?  I guess not.  Her hair was shaggy and uneven and despite how much I loved her awkward duck tail in the back, she needed to get it lopped off.  So I made her an appointment at a rip-off kids hair cutting place (what?!?  It’s her first hair cut!) and took her in.

Before:  Shaggy.  Hair in her eyes.  Cute.  A bit messy though.Before (Please note wicked tail):

Luckily the place was nearby my husband’s office and the appointment was around lunch so he was able to join us.  It’s nice when work doesn’t get in the way of enjoying life’s firsts, right?  Before we left the house, I had tried combing her hair a bit – since it wasn’t going to be in piggy tails, I wanted it to look decent.  Miss K. wasn’t having it.  She was fussy.  Oh boy.  It seemed that it wouldn’t be an easy thing to get this haircut.  I grabbed some snacks and we went on our way.

During:

Seriously Mom, is this necessary?

She did great in the hair dresser’s seat, by the way.  They had an airplane for her to sit in, but she didn’t seem to care.  We gave her a baby Mum-Mum to eat and that seemed to occupy her.

The hair dresser was good – kept baby calm and moved quickly.  She also snipped some locks of hair for us to keep and was really good about keeping me involved, constantly asking me what I thought and what I wanted.  Nicely done, Lulu.

Oh you fancy, huh?  Got your hair did.  Niiiiiice.

After:

Conclusion?  Cute Before, Cute After.

My husband’s friend/co-worker came with us and we all had lunch afterwards.  It was a nice experience.  Let’s hope all haircuts are this easy moving forward!

gPhoto Shoot

We did it!  Baby, Grandma, and I flew out to Portland and took some pictures for gDiapers.  I was concerned that Miss K would have a hard time or would be tired or cranky but all in all, she did pretty well!  We got to the photo studio in the morning and I was nervous!  I just wanted my baby to be happy and I really wanted her to be in an ad.  I know.  It’s selfish.  But I love this child and I can’t help but want her to represent a product that I believe in.  My husband also made me feel good – he said maybe one day she’ll think it’s really cool that her mom took her to be in a photo shoot for a diaper company.  I hope so.  I’m not trying to pimp out my kid (trust me, the compensation was not a motivator).

Anyways, we got to the photo shoot and I met three gals from gDiapers – all were FANTASTICALLY nice.  Really, just friendly and professional and I just can’t say enough good things.  One of the people I met was Kim Graham-Nye, one of the founders of the company.  She was really cool.  I couldn’t help but tell her how much I admired what she’s doing with the company.  It’s really really impressive and I hope she has nothing but success.  Back to the photo shoot.  We dressed Miss K in one of the spring line’s new items and she looked AH.  DOR.  AH.  BLE.  She did great!  She smiled and crawled and played and it seemed like they got plenty of good shots.  I hope that they end up using some of the shots in their marketing materials. They also had me change my shirt and they took some pictures of me with Miss K.

I got to preview the new spring line – as usual, gDiapers continues to put out great products.  But that’s all I’ll say about that!  You’re just going to have to wait til they’re released to fall in love.  :) I wish I could have taken one of each home with me – but alas.  It was not destined to be.

I was a little disappointed in the other gmums.  They were kind of cold; maybe they all knew each other or they’ve done this before.  Most of them just weren’t very friendly but that’s ok.  Karen, Gillian, Heather and Kim more than made up for it.  The ladies in the afternoon were a little better.

Miss K did do one wardrobe change and she was a trooper – poor thing tumbled a little when she was climbing on a prop and cried a little but settled down pretty quickly.  She did great.  I’m so proud of her.  So was her grandma.

In the afternoon, they called back to see if we could sit in on some more pictures.  I thought we were really far away but then we passed the exit for the photo studio on the freeway so I called them back and asked if they still needed us and they said yes so we stopped by again.  Unfortunately we weren’t planning on this second shoot so she wasn’t fed and rested.  The second one didn’t go as well; poor baby started crying some and was just tired.  I felt bad about that so I pulled her out of the shots a couple times and did my best to make her happy.  This time instead of dDiapers employee Gillian helping out, Heather was there and she was just delightful.  So so friendly and warm.

The funny part was that K. wore three different things and two of those things came out of my diaper bag.  The first time they were doing pictures with an existing color and when they put theirs on her, it looked a little saggy because it hadn’t been washed.  I happened to have that same color in good condition in my bag so we used that!  The second time they were in a rush and liked the color she was wearing when we came in for the afternoon shoot so they took pictures of her in that color.  Funny, huh?

I’m seriously impressed with both the photographer and the gDiapers folks.  They were still going – all day of taking pictures with unpredictable babies and still upbeat.  Awesome.  I know it’s a little crazy but I’m glad we did it.  The pictures won’t be published until the spring but that’s ok.  It was a good experience for us.

The travel itself for the most part went well also.  First time traveling without my husband and I was a bit nervous but it was ok.  My mom went with us and she’s really a piece of cake to travel with.  She is on board with whatever plan I come up with, genuinely wants to help, and isn’t picky about where we stay or what we eat.  Really, I am blessed.  She was fantastic the entire trip.  She sat in the back seat with Miss K when we drove places and fed her and watched her so that I could run out and get food and gas and whatever else.  Miss K did good on the flights, too.  She was a little fussy on the last leg of the trip but otherwise was a trooper.  They almost routed us back to Oakland halfway through our flight from San Jose to Orange County but then ended up landing at LAX.  Phew.  I was really dreading flying all the way back to Oakland and extending our travel day.  We could have waited a while and taken a flight from LAX to Orange County Airport (it’s about a 45 minute drive) but we just had our ride pick us up from LAX instead.  I didn’t want the poor thing to have to go up and down in the air any more than she needed to.  All in all, a great trip.  Thank you Mom, and thank you gDiapers!

My baby kinda looks like…

…her embrace is making this bear very VERY happy.

I feel ya, Cinnamon Bear – her hugs do that to me too and then I start hearing this little ditty in my head.

And just when you thought it couldn’t get any sweeter, she comes in a little closer and grabs on a little tighter. Heaven!  Elation!  Pure delight!The grin on that bear’s face is just so cute.

How is it that I still think she’s cute?

Just in the last 48 hours, Miss K. has pooped blueberry poop on the carpet (then tracked it through her room), spit her eggs on the floor, barfed some sort of liquid on my freshly changed shirt, ground my nipple between her gums – just for kicks – she was done eating, has rubbed oatmeal in her hair, yanked my hair, slobbered on my face, yanked my glasses off, and burped in my face.  And yet I find her to be the most delightful, delicious, cutest being on this gorgeous planet we call Earth.  How is that possible?  She’s seriously abused me in the worst ways and I’m exhausted – you should have seen the fight  she gave tonight.  Kicked on the way from the tub to the bed.  Rolled over while I was trying to dry her.  Fidgeted while I tried to put lotion on her.  Rolled and crawled away while I tried to put coconut oil on her bottom.  Rolled the other direction and almost fell off the bed while I tried to put the diaper on.  Screamed and fussed as I put on her jammies.  Tried to grab the comb and shook her head frantically as I tried to comb her hair.  You get the picture…but just know that before I put her down to bed I also had to get her in her sleep sack and read her a couple books.  And yet I find her to be the most delightful, delicious, cutest being on this gorgeous planet we call Earth.  How is this possible?  Well, first, she has this face, see…

Then, she has this personality…in the last 48 hours, she has also snuggled me and hugged me and crawled to me to give and get affection.  She’s opened her little mouth and leaned forward like a little birdie in a nest when she was ready for a bite of food.  She touched my face when I was nursing her.  She laid her head on my shoulder.  She looked for me frantically for a moment and then smiled when she saw me.  She stood for 10 seconds like a big girl.  She attacked a stuffed animal with love and looked like she was in ecstasy hugging it.  She hugged my husband’s legs and I swear she said Dada.  She cheered at the lunch table.  She snuggled my mom and took my grandma’s weariness away.  And she’s ours.  All ours.

Happy Ten Month Birthday, puddin’ pie.  I love you more than you words will ever describe.

In other exciting EXCITING news, my sister-in-law went in to the hospital to have her baby!!! Squeeeeeeee!!!  I’m so excited, I don’t know what to do with myself.  So I’m going to make her some macaroons.  WTH?  Can’t wait for my nephew to arrive.  We love you sister bear!  Today was a darn good day.  Tomorrow the world will be better.  He will be here.

Feeding the Beast

I spend a lot of time thinking about what to feed our daughter and how much to feed our daughter.  She’s almost ten months old and has been eating solids since she was six months old.  So far she’s been a pretty good eater but lately I’m noticing she tends to eat at two extremes of the spectrum.  Either she wants soft, easy to swallow purees that I spoon feed to her OR she wants finger foods that she can pick up and eat herself.  The latter of these seems to take forever and makes a mess, which honestly, makes me not want to do it but I know she needs to develop her skill in this area.  So I give her stuff like toast, scrambled eggs, cheerios, and puffs that she can pick up and stuff in her mouth.

I’m trying to ease her into table food but am still worried about some foods – are they too spicy?  Too much salt?  Does it have sugar?  She has no teeth – will she be ok or will she choke?  I’ve also found that as she’s eating more like us and less like a baby, I am buying more processed foods.  For example, over the last week, she’s had bread, butter, frozen peas and blueberries, canned lentil soup, store bought apple sauce, mixed grain cereal and canned pumpkin.  I actually don’t like giving her puffs – I feel like it’s just baby junk food.  The label says Organic, so I feel a little better but really, so what if it’s organic?  Does it have any natural nutritional value?  I’m still feeding her fresh foods like bananas, avocados, oatmeal, quinoa, eggs, edamame, persimmons, sweet potatoes, yams,  and zucchini but if I’m buying her store bought apple sauce, how is that any “better” than buying gerber baby foods?

I guess what I’m struggling with is what’s best for our baby to eat?  In general, I’m keeping her away from too much sodium, stuff that is barely food, and foods that have been stripped of their nutrients.  The crazy part is that most of what we eat DOES have sugar and it DOES have sodium and it IS stripped of so many nutrients.  I’m trying to give my family better food choices but it’s hard in today’s world.  We’ve developed a taste for unhealthy, non-nutrient-rich “foods.”  It’s been a week now that we’ve cut out refined sugars.  And every single day, I feel like drinking soda or an iced tea with high fructose corn syrup based flavors or some halloween candy.  I’ve committed to less fast food too. So what do I do?  I buy chips and some nacho cheese and eat it at home.  It’s my loop hole.  Reality is that it’s really tough for me to be good all the time so we’re taking it one day at a time.

What I’m hoping for is to have significantly reduced all that bad food by the time my daughter can recognize what we’re eating and ask for it too.  I just want her to have good eating habits.  But I also know that if I shelter her from normal foods too much, she might become an overly picky eater.  There must be a balance we can find.  i think the key is to make foods at home as often as possible.  Be in control of our food choices, rather than succumbing to whatever is convenient and offered out there in the world.  Although looking at this week’s meal plan, I realize there are very few veggies and fruits on the list.  And the holidays are coming up.  It won’t be easy to avoid all the sweets.  Man.  I thought feeding our little beast was hard.  But the more I think about it, the more I realize that battling what the beastly food industry is feeding us is harder!

Things I Never Thought I’d Say

Since becoming a mom, I’ve found myself saying all kinds of things I never thought I’d say.  Or more accurately, I find myself saying things I never thought I’d HAVE to say.  Here are a few:

  1. Please stop eating my face.  I need it for later.
  2. Get your hand out of the toilet!
  3. Please don’t eat that.  You just peed in it.
  4. Why do you have poop on the back of your arm??
  5. We need to buy some squash.
  6. No, power adapters are NOT for eating.
  7. If you go to sleep, I’ll give you Cheerios.
  8. Does your baby lick you?
  9. Good job!  You pooped!  What a good girl!

I find #8 somewhat troublesome.  I hope to encourage my daughter to do bigger, better things in life than just poop.  I don’t want to set the bar too low for her because in my heart of hearts, I have a feeling she’ll do great things in her lifetime.

My baby kinda looks like…

…A cutie little flower blossom

…she’s sitting next to your friendly neighborhood spider-man

Her little friend Shane is so cute.  Miss K. reminds me of the flower in one of our favorite games, Plants vs. Zombies.  Clearly, my husband and I would be the zombies.  This video is surprisingly catchy, despite it’s terrible lyrics.  Don’t be surprised if you find yourself singing it to your spouse.  Ok, fine.  Don’t be surprised if you find ME singing it to MY spouse.